My boyfriend has a 13 yr old son and a 11 yr old daughter. They live with their mother and we see them when she lets us. Recently it came out that the son has been (not sure how to phrase it) sexually contacting his cousins. Also, his step sis has said it happened to her with him and her brother. The 11yr old daughter wets the bed frequently which I know can be a sign of abuse but the whole family is opting out on it. They are choosing to ignore it or at best just not let him around his cousins for a bit. My boyfriend is disgusted and sad and scared but not sure what to do. The kid's mom is EXTREMELY manipulative and a frequent liar. She won't return phone calls to discuss it and she has always made us fight tooth and nail for every moment we see the kids so my boyfriend doesn't have a very close relationship with his son at this point. I guess I just want to know, do we just butt out and watch and try to pick up the pieces or throw a fit and try to get custody of 11yr old or at least have it investigated?
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