with trying to maintain balance in our relationship dh and i have date night where after kids go to sleep, we sneak away & watch a movie, either one we own or rent one, play a game or just talk. we have a special treat and drink like decaf pop or non-alcoholic wine that we normally don't have. we started marking the dates on calendar as priority but since new baby we haven't had but a couple date nights b/c we are too tired and baby comes first.
btw: this is not sexual in nature, it's a way for us to reconnect emotionally, mentally, etc. w/o LOs always interupting, except Elijah usually has to join us but at least he can quitely join us (by nursing)
what does everyone else do to reconnect w/ their partner?