i think it's okay to express to her how the screaming is making you feel. so saying something like, "i know your upset. it's okay for you to scream, but it really hurts my ears. so if you're going to scream please find a place that is safe to do it. when you're ready to talk, i'll be here." that way you're acknowledging both of your needs.
No announcement yet.
The screaming is putting me over the edge