another question about car seats: My 20 month old is fine getting strapped in when we set out from home, but often resents it when we need to get back. I promised myself never to strap him in when he's crying, but sometimes my patience wears thin...have only done it once, so far and he was quite surprised.
I made it a habit to check nappy and feed before trying, but still we sometimes end up sitting in some car park or other for up to 1/2h, and I can get very crabby.
We keep some toys back for these occasions, and usually he suddenly complies again without a problem, but should I be more assertive?
On the drives he's fine and sleeps a lot (classical music helps, I guess)
Sometimes it feels like he's using the suckles to not have to do what I'm asking...