DH has never been that keen on my doing PD and now he's saying its all my fault we have such an unruly daughter who never does what she's told. I'll add that she is a very different little girl when she's with me, she's definately a free spirit and its true she doesn't do everything I ask the minute I ask her, but she generaly does eventually, she is only 3 after all. Our other daughter is 3 months and Rhianna loves her to bits, but she occasionally gets frustrated and hits out at Scarlett, although, (maybe its my wishful thinking) I'm sure its more that its aimed at DH or me if I've been distracted, its just Scarlett is smaller so an easier target. She also doesn't realise her strength, she hit Scarlett once, and only once, and really made her cry, but instantly she started crying herself, because she hadn't meant to hurt her.Thats how I see it anyway.
She's stopped lashing out at Scarlett, she's realised its not Scarlett she's angry with, and if I can find a way to stop the kicking I'm hoping things will settle back down a bit more again. Its not that she's doing it for attention, she plays most evenings with DH really nicely, she just gets carried away and doesn't know how to stop. I just wish I could stop her myself.