Anyone have problems with wanting a very attached delivery/birth? I am finding it hard to explain why I want my older child there (he will be 3) and that I want to hold the baby afterwards vs use the plastic crib. Anyone else experience this?
They explained they would have to sit down and discuss all the reasons why I shouldn't co-sleep and how this could increase the chance of my baby dying. It's sad they don't seem to have the research going in the other direction that it is safe!