DS is 26 months very active, smart and funny... he is also EXHAUSTING and combative at the moment. I know its just two year old stuff, but I am finding it hard. He is toilet training (started by him). He no longer naps (hasnt for months) and still wakes up multiple times at night after a good stretch where he was sleeping through - he started waking up again after his sister arrived.
DD is 4 months and after a great start where she just slept all the time she is now awake every hour, day and night. In order to keep her asleep I have to be actively rocking her or feeding her. Wearing her in a sling is not enough, it has to be full on rocking. So whenever she is asleep it is virtually impossible to do anything with DS and when she is awake we really need to do stuff that she can join in on as she is starting to actually play rather than just passively sit there.
I am tandem feeding and as they are BOTH going through really clingy stages I feel as though I am constantly on demand.... like I am typing this with one hand while rocking DD and BFing DS.
I am losing my temper....and my mind. I didnt think it would be like this and I find myself wishing time away which I hate.
I need some encouragement and kind words. I feel like running away.