Okay, so my in-laws and I have a strained relationship, it got much worse once our daughter was born, and seems to continue to go downhill. It is becoming more cold and contentious. Our daughter is now 19mo. and really picking up on the negative vibes and I am really trying to change my outlook to make this better for her. Just an example of where we are at now, they are over this morning visiting they live about 45min. away and I decided to just go up to our bedroom instead of creating more negative vibes. How have you worked through your in-law grandparent situations what has worked. They don't approve of our parenting style and are very uncomfortable with extended nursing, much less nursing in general. And of course they blame all of this for the fact that our daughter really doesn't want to go to them. I think it's probably all the negativity that exists when they are around, which is why for now I'm just deleting myself from the equation.
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Grandparents & Inlaws