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us as we celebrate, lift up, and be Families at Play! More information
is available below on a special teleseminar on play, membership special,
the daily calendar of tips, discounts and promotions, and photo and
A Mother’s Love May Keep the Doctor Away
An extra dose of motherly nurturing insulates children from lifelong health problems associated with poverty.
Independence Requires Attachment
than anything in the world, children need to be deeply attached to
their parents to grow into independent, responsible, and mature human
beings. When kids feel like they can always count on their mom and dad
to protect them, care for them, and guide them when the going gets too
tough for them to manage on their own, their nervous systems become
deeply relaxed and growth unfolds optimally out of this state of rest.
How Devoted Moms Buffer Kids in Poverty
raised in poverty often grow up to have poor health in adulthood, from
frequent colds to heart disease. But there's one thing that might
buffer them from that fate: a good mom.
Children's Right to Play
An examination of the importance of play in the lives of children worldwide.
Learning through Unstructured Play Helps Kids Develop
or tossing your children around on purpose, can be a hard sell to many
parents. We worry our kids will get hurt. We don't want rowdy behavior
carrying over into the classroom, especially in schools with no-touching
policies. And many of us aren't really even sure how to physically
interact with our kids.
When Play Is Not Good...
Are Japan's hikikomori and depression in young people spreading abroad?
How Neighborhood Poverty Influences Maternal Fear of Children's Outdoor Play
poverty is likely to make a mother more fearful about letting her
children play outdoors. "It's no secret that children play outdoors less
now than in recent decades, and research shows maternal fear as one
Education World Loses Human-Development Visionary
Dr. Peter L. Benson, president and CEO of Minneapolis-based
Search Institute, died Sunday, Oct. 2, after a
year-long fight with cancer. Dr. Benson's international reputation in
human development emerged in the 1990s through his innovative,
research-based framework of the 40 Developmental Assets, which became
the driving force behind the creation of America's Promise Alliance's
Benson's work wove together rigorous scholarship with a passionate
commitment to understanding-and influencing-society to be more attentive
to children, youth, and families.
Maybe he'll ask Steve Jobs to design a heavenly
app that finds the most worthy non-profits in the field of child
development/prevention and send a showering flood of resources our way.
|Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
One World Birth
World Birth is a free online video resource for birth professionals,
activists, and parents who want to keep their finger on the pulse of
birth around the globe today. The world's birth experts discuss the
latest thinking & research in short, bite-sized video clips that are
based around a central theme each month.
Placenta: Organ of Change
respect for the spongy, blobby, short-lived placenta: Acts as much more
than a passive conduit, shapes the development of the fetus, provides
information science can't get anywhere else.
Have you been reading from your own copy of the book No-Cry Separation Anxiety Solution?
It contains some wonderful ideas you might never thought of. Some
common situations that she discusses in her book: not being able to
leave the room, when your child resists a babysitter, going on an adult
vacation, sleepovers, and more.
an example? Allow your baby that dreamy alone time when they wake-up
instead of immediately going to them right away. Or switching from one
caretaker to another while baby/child is happily playing on the floor
engaged, instead of in arms.
We do hope you continue to read No-Cry Separation Anxiety Solution.
|Feeding with Love and Respect
Breastfeeding Report Card—United States, 2011
The Breastfeeding Report Card, now in its fifth year, provides perspectives on state and national trends in breastfeeding data.
"If Play's Our Natural Way, What Gets in the Way?"
our parental fear of play and how to restore and cultivate wellbeing,
reconnection, and playfulness in ourselves for healthy relationships.
Featuring Lu Hanessian
Monday, October 24th
9:00 pm EST/6:00 pm PST
|Responding with Sensitivity
Involved Dads Give Kids an Edge
with children with absentee fathers, children whose fathers were
present and actively involved in their lives during early and middle
childhood had fewer behavior problems and higher intellectual abilities
as they grew older, even among children of lower socioeconomic status.
AP Month Is a Special Time of Year for API
It's our month for a great auction, great donations, and a great membership special! This year the theme is play. To play along with API, play with your family and friends by splitting a membership or buying a great gift.
That's right, it's our 2-for-1 special!
Buy two memberships for the price of one! That's the equivalent of one
free movie ticket or two cups of coffee! Don't let this special pass you
|Ensure Safe Sleep, Emotionally and Physically
Sleepy Teens More Likely to Have Risky Behavior
teens don't get enough sleep, putting them at greater risk for a slew
of unhealthy behaviors, from physical inactivity to fighting.
Early Bedtime, Early Rising Keeps Teens Fit
Going to bed early and rising early could be a principal factor in combating obesity and enhancing overall fitness for teens.
Baylor University on Stress and Coping Strategies
A doctoral student is looking for parents of children ages 5-12 in three categories:
1. Parents of children with an Autism Spectrum Disorder
2. Parents of children with Type 1 Diabetes
3. Parents of children with no diagnoses
Data is collected via an online survey, which
takes 30-45 minutes to complete. People who complete the survey can
participate in a drawing for one of three $50 giftcards to Amazon.com.
Any questions, contact Crystal Lee, M.S. at Crystal_Lee1@Baylor.edu.
Seeking Stories for Online Book about Contemporary Parenting
seeks 365 moms and dads to add their stories to this online project.
Contact publisher Lisa Duggan firstname.lastname@example.org for details.
|Consistent and Loving Care
Let's Not Sling Off at a Parenting Option That Does Work
Babies should be closely monitored - but that applies to everything.
Recession Tied to Rise in Child Abuse Injuries
incidence of "shaken baby syndrome" and other head trauma almost
doubled, study found. "So, is there anything that can be done to reduce
economic hard times' impact on the health of children? Berger believes
that education and more support for struggling families may help put a
dent in the troubling statistics she's seen."
|Practice Positive Discipline
Bill Banning Corporal Punishment in Schools to Be Introduced in Congress
are two Americas out there for young students right now – one where
they go to school knowing that they’ll be guided positively by caring
adults, and one where they live in constant fear of getting beaten,"
said Rep. McCarthy, a member of the Committee on Education and
Workforce. "Bullying is enough of a problem among students; the
teachers shouldn’t be doing it, too. There’s nothing positive or
productive about corporal punishment and it should be discouraged
everywhere." Read about the Bill here.
|Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
Cycle of "Compulsive Consumerism" Leaves British Family Life in Crisis
parents are trapping their children in a cycle of "compulsive
consumerism" by showering them with toys and designer labels instead of
spending quality time with them, a Unicef study has found.
Erosion of Childhood: Letter with Full List of Signatories
Look at some of these signatories (e.g., Peggy O'Mara, Michael Odent).
Here's the full letter from more than 200 experts about how childhood is
being eroded by a "relentless diet" of advertising and addictive
The Rising Cost of Raising a Child
designer strollers and organic baby formula, just providing a child
with the basics has become more than most parents can afford.
I sent my excited 11 year old off to spend a week at the beach with his
best friend's family. The night before, he wanted to spend the evening
with our whole family - we all miss each other when we're apart, so we
always try to get in a few hours of togetherness when one of us has to
How did he want to spend his evening together? Watch a movie? Have a special dinner? No. He wanted to play a game.
Play! Playing together has to be one
of my favorite things in the world. Whether it's playing a board game,
playing music, playing an imagination game, or just being silly and
horsing around, it's one of the few times when all the demands of the
world drop away and we can all relate on the same level.
When we're in the midst of laughter
and goofiness, I don't worry about the laundry that needs to be done,
the kids don't worry about the schoolwork that needs to be finished, and
any sibling issues that have popped up through the course of the day
quickly drop away. We all know that those things are still there and
need to be dealt with, but for those few precious, sacred minutes, we're
able to show what we really are at our hearts - contented, loving
family members who all adore each other and enjoy our time together.
Sometimes it's hard to get to the
place where we can drop our worries and let our defenses down. Sometimes
it takes a bit of convincing for one of us. Sometimes playing a game is
the last thing one of us wants to do because we're busy or preoccupied
or just not in the mood. But in the end the game always results in a
stretch of time where we can all be ourselves at our best.
So gather up your family, pick a game that suits you, and laugh!
In this month's Links, we have a number of articles for you on the importance of play and other interesting topics:
- when play is necessary,
- when play goes wrong,
- the importance of teen sleep, and
- how breastmilk and a mother's love keep children healthy.
Please join me in welcoming this month's new Leaders: Jenni Ascher, API of Jacksonville, Florida; Petra Garosi, API of Upper Montgomery County Maryland; and Kate Scheller, API of Downriver Michigan. Welcome to the API family!
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